If my husband cheated on me I would do what…The majority of women that answered to the question: “Would you forgive him if he would cheat on you?” were pretty vehement. “I am leaving him!” however, there are many women that would not do that from the start. For example, there are some women that find comfort in revenge, and then they would think about leaving the prick. There are also women that forgive their partner, such as Lesy
Lesy: I would forgive him because I have a child with him
It is about the evolution of mammals, and humans are not an exception. The male has an instinctual desire to be with many females. The rest is only a compromise created by society along its evolution. According to Lesy, there are no faithful men, only discrete. Or, if they are faithful, they are like that only because they are afraid of being discovered, or because the feeling of love is sometimes stronger than the one of dominating, but eventually, the dominating one will surface.
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Julia: If my husband cheated on me I would never forget him, because it says something about him
First, this shows that he does not love me, that he does not respect me, and I could never get over this! If he does not like our relationship anymore, we should talk about it. If there is something that can’t be repaired, we will just split! What is the harm in that?
Some men are so coward that they stay in a relationship simply because they don’t want to be alone. It is a waste of time. Those men will try to cheat one way or the other, to find the “replacement” for what they already have. Is this good? Of course not, but what can we do? Sometimes, the woman does not even realize this, thinking that this is the way things must be, but when their beloved man comes with his new girlfriend at home telling her that “this was the way it meant to be”, the disappointment of the cheated woman is immense.
Larisa: any man cheats at least 10 times in a lifetime
No matter how much my husband loves me, I know that he cheats. He cheats while he is away with work, or with some stranger in a bar, or at a bachelor’s party with his friends. I take this as a normal thing, and I even think that it is a good thing. The good part is that I am never afraid. I know that I am the best for him, and this is why I know that he will always come home. Moreover, when he cheats, he has a good term of comparison, and he will discover which is the best for him.
Ade: I was cheated once and I decided to forgive…It was a huge mistake. A man that has this instinct will always have it and when I discovered him the second time, a few years later, I also found out that it was not the second time, it was something common. I left him and I never want to hear from him again!
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