It happened for you to cheat…It is a bad thing, but it is not the end of the world. The question is if you can still be together or not. Moreover, you need to analyze why you did that, and if it is worth it to remain together, or to go on your separate ways. Some ways how to forgive yourself for cheating.
What happened?
You got into a fight, you haven’t spoken one with the other for a week, but you still don’t consider yourselves as being separated. As long as you were separated, you went to the club, and you met some interesting guys that asked you for a dance.
One of them seemed attractive, so you accepted his invite for a coffee. He led you home, and then the kiss followed.
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How would this end?
He didn’t call you for a few days, and maybe you didn’t want to. Suddenly, you discovered that there is somebody else in your life. Remorse appears, and you don’t know what to do: you can keep this adventure for you, or you decide to confess to your boyfriend, because this would make you feel a lot better. Before doing that, think about the consequences.
You were not able to resist the temptation, and now you feel sorry. However, you also feel good when you feel wanted and appreciated. Infidelity made you to become the passion lion that you used to be, the girl that your boyfriend followed for months with romantic walks in the park, at restaurants and with surprising gifts.
What you must avoid?
Don’t leave your boyfriend for the new guy. Don’t continue the relationship with the mysterious stranger. This will lead to more remorse feeling, and you will end up at the psychologist. Getting in love with a man that you cheated your boyfriend with is not a smart thing to do.
What you must do
If you have been seen with your new lover, destroy the rumors one by one. Break the connections with people that might reveal your secret. Does he know where you live? Tell your boyfriend that it is somebody that stocks you. Take a look at your Facebook list and make sure that you don’t have somebody there that might say something stupid.
If you can’t live with this….
If you can’t keep the secret anymore and you want to get rid of the remorse, confess! It will be hard, but there is the possibility to get over this moment. However, consider the fact that he might not want to live with that. As for the gesture, make sure that he will never forget.
If you realize that you have been cheating on him because there was something missing from your relationship, you must not hide that. Think about your future carefully. You want to improve your relationship, or you just want it to be over, so you could get to the next step of your life.
When you have your thoughts in order, speak openly. There is no point in stalling, if you feel like the things are not going in the right direction. Tell him why you need a break, and put the arguments together. One way or the other, you need to clarify those matters.
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